Day 10. Create time for your families by Mrs Olubola Adeleye

*Day 10. Create time for your families by Mrs Olubola Adeleye*

I have never seen anyone on their death bed who regretted not spending too much time on their career or business but people regret that they neglected their spouse and children. 

Don't take your spouse and children for granted by just expecting them to remain there when you refuse to show up for them.

Everyone has 24hours that God blessed us with. How you spend your 24hours now will determine your future?

If your job, your career, your business is more important than your spouse and children, you will not like the consequences later in life.

Your spouse and children are the most important in this world.

Are you there when your spouse needs you or you just don't have time? Your job is more important.

Are you there on your children's visiting day? Or you think that, because you pay school fees, that's fatherhood. You are highly mistaken.

Fatherhood is about being there for your children on their important days.

You will only get 18 years with these children. After that, they are off to higher institutions and out of your nest. What happens then?

Won't you leave your busy life and go and visit your children every month in their higher institutions before its too late?

Won't you leave a good legacy for your spouse and children?

Your job and career or business is temporary. Did you know that? But your spouse and children are permanent.

Where are you on their birthdays? Are you physically there or you just send money? As if money is everything.

Love is your presence there with your spouse and children. Your physical presence you cannot buy with money.

The line of communication or having fun with your spouse and children must never be broken. Talk with them daily and create times of fun with them.

Do fun family activities together.

Book them in your diary or schedule them in your weekly plans and make sure that, you keep it.

If you have to choose between your spouse and children and your job or business, know that, your family comes first and a job is temporary.

How sad is it to acquire all the money and wealth and no spouse or children to share them with?

It is vanity upon vanity.

After God, the most important people in your life are your spouse and children. The third place goes to your job or business. Please don't get it mixed up.

Love them with your money, especially your physical presence and be an asset to them and not a pain in the ass.

All those men who beat their wives, God is unhappy with you, please know this. The tears of your wife is stored and the begging of your children to stop abusing their mother that you wickedly refuse to yield to, will hunt you for life. Repent and stop domestic violence now.

Kudos to men that love their lives without laying a finger to abuse them. Men who love their wives and children, you are blessed.

*- Mrs Olubola Adeleye*

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